I have screen shots, phone numbers, chat logs, etc, but it's looking like PayPal doesn't care about any of that stuff. I guess maybe it's better to sell to the chinese at $1.0 - $1.2 per k.
Did they send the payment as a gift? If not, shame on you. If you didn't trust them and didn't use Moneybookers SHAME ON YOUZ!!!1!
Yeah well, this is why I'm always weary about finding private buyers.. no matter what you do, if they use a proxy to login to paypal they can reverse it and you're screwed
Paypal won't help you at all if it's for virtual items. Gift can still be reversed. Better to find legitimate buyers
Gift is the way to go, but when people send as gift, they geenerally get the money back by stating they were hacked or did not authorize the transaction.