https://secure.logmein.com/. I'm using this one. its quite laggy but works well enough for a free app. if u have whispers going into a new window u can easy see them, it doesnt have push up notifications thou.
i use this to monitor my bot. Great FPS. http://www.thebuddyforum.com/honorb...nitor-your-bot-your-iphone-android-phone.html
I use crazy remote, it was build around WoW so their interface makes making adjustment to your bot or even playing wow on your iphone possible. The free version can be used if your on wifi, their paid version you can you on the go through 3g or 4g. I love it